ello.

the week is positively starting in about one and a half hours time.

I must say, i look forward to the new week. In part, or mainly because it’s his birthday!!!!
well. Sundays can be quite boring, save for the various quirky photo opportunities. (and i do not mean cam-whoring)
yes, i do not see what is interesting about cam whoring. haha. 

Mr Hershey’s was here, and he willingly posed for me!!! (as above)*giggles*

met my ex-boss and spoke with her for a bit, she looks so old already…must be the stress.
these days, perhaps i’ve been working with computers running on windows 7, i must say i’m quite impressed. although i feel it’s a blatant act of intellectual infingement. mac’s os does pretty much the same stuff too.

Or is it just that the peeps at so and so company have run out of ideas? riding the no eye deer huh??

so much for the OS part. now… check this out, it’s creepily real. http://www.cracked.com/article_15628_the-5-creepiest-urban-legends-that-happen-to-be-true.html

this site has the most interesting stuff…got this from there as well.http://www.cracked.com/article_19146_8-absurd-jokes-that-predicted-real-life-events.html

was surfing and i came across this page. have a look. we can all be more positive each day.

1. Never respond when you are not calm. If you are not sure that you are calm, don’t respond. Take time to calm yourself down first.
2. Take a deep breath as a first step to calm yourself down.
3. Speak in gentle tone to reduce the tension of the situation.
4. Realize that you can find opportunities in negative situations. Albert Einstein said: “In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.”
5. Look at the content of what people say to you for something positive that you can act upon to improve yourself. Don’t just reject the whole messages.
6. For the rest of the messages which is negative, simply ignore it.
7. Maintain positive view of the people. Maybe you don’t like their messages or behavior, but that doesn’t mean that you can hate them personally.
8. Realize that having negative feelings will just hurt you, not them. So there is no reason for you to have any negative feeling.
9. If you make mistakes, be open to admit it.
10. If you make mistakes, remember this quote by George Bernard Shaw: “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”
11. If you can, listen to motivational audio program to feed positive thoughts into your mind.
12. Talk to a positive friend who can encourage you.
13. Remember your favorite quotes to give you inspiration and motivation. This is one reason why you should have quote of the day.
14. Look at the negative situations as your training sessions for real life. The higher you climb in life, the worse the negative situations would be, so you’d better be prepared for them.
15. Realize that you can’t please everyone. In fact, nobody can. Sometimes you need to just let some people go. Realizing this will relieve you from a lot of unnecessary burden so that you can focus on the people that you can positively interact with.

from::http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/09/10/15-tips-to-stay-positive-in-negative-situations/

we have to go kick them in the butt everyday..

we can and we will.

  power of the human will and determination.

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time flying past in a blink of an eyelid.

hate to say this, but i wonder why it starts racing/running/ticking away straight after you hit 21.
why???? it’s like there’s an accelerator that is on auto mode…

IMAGINE THIS SCENARIO:

0-20 (up till the very second of your birthday and time, ok? )

DASHBOARD: hey people (your brain to every part of your body) : yo!!! what’s up… this girl/boy is growing up already!!!! in a few moments, please get ready to refuel, we have not been doing our job…. we must, I REPEAT, we must do our best!!!!

ALL OTHER PARTS: yes sir!!! *** all switches are on standby, biological clock starts revving up, skin starts revamping, nutrients,detox and absorption exchange are on gear 4, etc..

DASHBOARD: ALL RIGHT!!!! Everyone, NOW is the time.

IN 5 , 4 , 3 , 2 , 1 ……

****** the countdown begins.

END OF SCENARIO

Tough reality ?
Sadly, this is how is works… Sigh….

I’m getting older? went to TOPSHOP for my F3 card exchange, and i thought i didnt bring it. Gave it a miss and went to get food for my pink cichlids. after wards, i checked my wallet, and i found the card in my wallet. HAH… time to clear my wallet!!!!

Wet Weather in Singapore
The RAIN never, I repeat, NEVER is predictable. yes, u must be thinking, DUH…
But hey… is RAIN ever predictable?

well… the weatherman can forecast, but that’s about all he can do. Wind patterns change, there are likely to be torrents, tons of passing clouds, etc… smoke, haze, blah, blah..

So sweets and i was walking down to get a bar of chocolate in the late evening, and it wasnt really really, felt just cool not hot, perhaps due to the morning rain, and SPLAT!! A rain droplet hit my forehead…

Spontaneously we both broke into ‘raindrops keep falling on my head’…

and boy, does he remember the whole song!

i can only remember ‘raindrops keep falling on my head’
oh well..

left with his family for a birthday dinner at express teppan-yaki tampines for his dad… and i think the chef there remembers me or something, cos i ALWAYS used to eat there with my parents, both sweets and i got prolly 4 or 5 servings of vegetables!!! lol

of course, i headed down again… got vouchers and the card but i gave the TOPSHOP and TOPMAN vouchers to his bro, guess he’ll have more stuff to buy.. Sweetie only wanted 1 top… feel like getting it for him tomorrow… should i?

happy diwali!!

yes, i know about the lack of posts… i havent been able to think of anything constructive to write….
ooops

The time is now 18.47 on Jan 1 2010. And i cant seem to decide if i wanna start using my ‘new’ diary or the actual NEW diary.

* I’ve kept the diary for quite long, and it’s those general diary, useful for any years, so it’s still new!*

In the span of 4 hours, I’ve managed to get a mini family board game marathon!!!

Scrabble and Monopoly.

hah.

And amazingly, they won. I lost.

This year, it seems different. I cant describe it.

Old memories fade away, while sweet ones linger long after they’re gone.
Old friends suddenly appear in the form od SMS-es. and mobile greetings.
‘ To end off the year, let’s just reflect and move on.’
Many a good friend has told us that, but, really, how many of us, actually did embrace the journey?
Do we only remember them when festivities draw close?
The good old hangouts and gatherings, how laughter filled the air.
Friends. oR dare i say, victims of everyone else.
Friends of convenience, as a rather close friend would call it.
Friends of friends?
This is but a small world.
Even u reading this now, i guess in some way, some distant friend connects us.
Thus, the golden ties, on looking back.

I do hope and pray that my 2010, as it draws nearer, will bring me good cheer, and new company.

Deep reflective thoughts as it may seem,
I am certain everyone has, at a point in time, comtemplated about these.

To a great journey ahead, to golden ties, to family and friends, and everyone i know,
As the champagne bottle goes *pop*, let’s all celebrate the brand new year, with new experiences, and renewed hope.

HAPPY 2010….

lip service.

facial expressions.

verbal communication.

electronic messages.

the pathway of communication is varied, yet we still process information the same way. We assume, we misinterpret, think too much, beat up the other in our head, critique, comment, etc.

Why? Human Nature? Or is it just the randomness of our mind, filled with space, and time to kill, thus we invent gossip? Heh. We can do better than that.

BUT, it always takes effort.

EFFORT = effort foreseen for every realistic task.

why effort foreseen? cos u know u will be putting in effort…